Why did you leave me is a question that comes up in a relationship with a significant other, with a parent or sibling and ultimately with God or the source of our existance. In this episode of Pandora's Box, Kaleah delves into deep seated abandonment issues and why they can have such a deep and lasting impact on us. Feel free to participate in this show by calling (347) 826-9626.
Dr. Patricia Ariadne interviewed "everyday" people who have undergone profound periods of depression and despair triggered by many of the crises common to human life: death of loved ones, divorce, illness, aging. However, some of the crises she is encountering in her practice have been created by recent economic conditions, such as loss of home or a job. Her contention is that this process is a essentially a spiritual process. If navigated correctly, it can bring about a reorientation, a recognition of what is really important in life. People can begin to re-prioritize what they give their time and attention to, as the things they thought they could depend on have failed them. Trying to escape this meeting of the self through drugs, alcohol, sex, frantic activity, overwork, etc., does not work, because the void they have been trying to fill is a God-shaped hole. Dr. Ariadne's thesis is that through many of the difficulties we are currently facing, we are being forced to mature spiritually--this means learning more about ourselves, reconnecting to Spirit or Source, and giving back to our communities.
When you have experienced being devalued and discarded in your relationship it is easy to jump to the emotional conclusion that “it’s me! It’s my fault, I’m not good enough, I’m not enough” but what you might not realize is the person jumping ship is not bailing from you as much as he/she is bailing from his/her own pain. When a relationship progresses if you don’t have the tools to deal with conflict and to communicate openly and honestly there can be no resolution for issues and those issues will continue to expand until they destroy the relationship. Those who are narcissistic or don’t have any relationship skills will tend to project their repressed pain onto those closest to them and then disassociate from that person in attempt to disassociate from the pain. We may be under the impression that the one doing the devaluing and discarding isn’t feeling a thing, but it might be more that this person is running from his/her feelings. You may end up feeling that you are carrying the “pain bag” and may even own the projections of the one running from pain. In this episode of Pandora’s Box we will shed light on what it might look like if someone you love has cut you off and how this may have absolutely nothing to do with you. You may simply be mirroring the pain of the person who is disassociating and really running from himself/herself.
Norma T. Hollis has always listened to the quiet voice within and acted on it – no matter what. For as long as she can remember she’s known that she came to the planet with a purpose. She even has memories of being given an assignment immediately before birth. But she forgot this until she was reminded at age eight when a perforated eardrum resulted in two years of excruciating earaches. The experience and the many mystical ones that followed taught her to listen deeply to the voices that spoke within. The voices guided her to spend 30 years studying human energy systems from personal, professional and spiritual perspectives. In the process she was instructed to take all that she had learned and experienced and write exercises to help people in the nine vibrational energies that were revealed to her. Now she spends her life sharing these nine vibrational energies, helping people find their authenticity within the nine energies, aligning the energies and raising their vibration. This process is actually the continuation of her soul’s journey and the focus of her work for many millennia. You may participate in this show by calling into: (347) 826-9626.
It's almost Independence Day in the U.S. and Anah and I felt it would be powerful to do a show on Independence. Don't worry it's not political. We are going to be talking about the Joy of being Independent, finding that strength within ourselves to step out into the world and do, be and have whatever we set our hearts to. Anah and I are both making powerful changes in our lives and will be talking about the shifts happening not only for us but for a majority of people on the planet right now. You may participate in this show by calling into: (347) 826-9626.