Pandora’s Box with Kaleah

Do you ever feel like you are invisible? Feel like people don’t see you, hear you, or know who you really are? Does it often feel like you have fallen off the radar of the people in your life or feel you don’t really exist? This is often the experience of the invisible child; an aspect from our childhood that comes with us into our adulthood. In this episode of Pandora’s Box, Kaleah will talk about the experience of being invisible, a temporary cloak of invisibility and becoming visible again.

The title, “The Empath and the Narcissist” may sound a bit like a fairytale of two opposites and a relationship between an Empath and a Narcissist may very well begin like a fairytale; but it often ends more like a nightmare.  Why is one who is highly empathic so frequently attracted to one so lacking in empathy? In this episode of Pandora’s Box Kaleah will talk about the Empath, his/her draw to the narcissist and how he/she can reconcile the ending of a painful relationship with someone who cares nothing for her feelings.

Why are so many women attracted to the bad boy or narcissist and why are so many men attracted to the borderline, high maintenance vixen?  This is a common question that is often difficult to find an easy answer to.  In this episode of Pandora's Box we will look deeper into the powerful draw to the narcissist and how we can understand our own attraction factor, change it and move on to a much more sane and healthy relationship.

So you've found yourself in a relationship with a narcissist or have been dealing with a narcissistic family member, friend, boss or co-worker.  Your feelings of insanity and confusion led you to research your symptoms only to come up with the term NPD or Narcissistic Personality Disorder.  Now what?  How do you get yourself unentangled from the narcissistic Web of Illusion and find your way back to Sanity.  In this episode of Pandora's Box Kaleah talks about how the empathic, codependent, enabler is a perfect match for a narcissist.  How can you recognize your own co-dependent nature and heal yourself so that you are no longer drawn to the role of enabler.

So you've found yourself in a relationship with a narcissist or have been dealing with a narcissistic family member, friend, boss or co-worker.  Your feelings of insanity and confusion led you to research your symptoms only to come up with the term NPD or Narcissistic Personality Disorder.  Now what?  How do you get yourself unentangled from the narcissistic Web of Illusion and find your way back to Sanity.  In this episode of Pandora's Box Kaleah talks about the importance of "no contact" or "no energy" in order to get your power back.

Tuesday August 5th, 2013 4pm PT:  Understanding Narcissistic Abuse So you've found yourself in a relationship with a narcissist or have been dealing with a narcissistic family member, friend, boss or co-worker.  Your feelings of insanity and confusion led you to research your symptoms only to come up with the term NPD or Narcissistic Personality Disorder.  Now what?  How do you get yourself unentangled from the narcissistic Web of Illusion and find your way back to Sanity.  In this episode of Pandora's Box Kaleah brings new insight and awareness to the topic of NPD.

To wrap up the four stages of metamorphosis Kaleah talks about living the authentic life.  It is the new life as a butterfly; as your true self where you now make your own needs a priority and live a life designed by YOU.  Does this mean you are always happy, joyful and fulfilled?  NO!  it means you are REAL and have real feelings, real relationships and real, honest communication.  No more wishing that someone else will come in and rescue you from pain.  You have learned to accept pain as part of your life experience and have become your own rescuer.  Kaleah draws inspiration from her new book "Rebirth; Traversing the Dark Night of the Soul" sharing her ideas and concepts from the book. Learn More About This Book or Purchase It Now!

This is the final stage of metamorphosis where the new body of the butterfly is formed and it has sufficient strength to break out of the cocoon and take flight into its new life. This is the stage of rebirth where everything begins to emerge much like the bursting forth of springtime. This is where you may truly feel inspired by life again; you begin to come back out and be more social. It may be a time where you move to a new place, launch a new business, get a new job, work out and get into great shape, change your diet, start expressing yourself artistically in a new way and even finding new love. In this episode of Pandora’s Box Kaleah talks about the rebirth and how you can recognize that point where you stop dying and start being born. Kaleah draws inspiration from her new book "Rebirth; Traversing the Dark Night of the Soul" sharing her ideas and concepts from the book. Learn More About This Book or Purchase It Now!

In the process of metamorphosis the old resistant cells are being consumed by the rapidly growing imaginal cells. The old cells are the body of the caterpillar surrendering its form to become the butterfly. But how is the butterfly formed? From the new, non resistant imaginal cells. As we let go of the old we use our own imaginal cells or imagination to create the new life that is emerging. In this episode of Pandora’s Box Kaleah talks about the emptiness most people find themselves in during a personal metamorphosis and how to use your imagination to create what you really want in life. Kaleah draws inspiration from her new book "Rebirth; Traversing the Dark Night of the Soul" sharing her ideas and concepts from the book. Learn More About This Book or Purchase It Now!

Being in the womb of transformation is being in the cocoon. One has dissolved into nothingness and a major inward retreat is in process. This is not a time to be social or “out there” in the world. It is a time for personal retreat, solitude and introspection. It is a time to face the dragon; the shadow; our own dark side. In this place we confront our deepest fears and insecurities; we cry all our uncried tears; grieve what has outgrown its form or no longer a part of our lives and we learn to surrender to the process of being “in the womb of transformation.” Kaleah draws inspiration from her new book "Rebirth; Traversing the Dark Night of the Soul" sharing her ideas and concepts from the book. Learn More About This Book or Purchase It Now!